Alhamdulillah, I am a woman with a caring man.
Monday, January 27, 2014 // 9:51 AM
Have you ever thought how tough his responsibilities are for his family, his woman and especially himself?
He have to be a good role model, protect the ones he loves and support them.
There were times times that I was annoyed, I thought I was controlled. He wouldn't let me go out on my own, especially at night. I said, "But I always do and nothing happened." He would get mad at me for wearing revealing clothes. He would keep me down when I'm too loud in public. He would spam me calls and texts when I'm out to work or with my friends.
I'll be like, "OMG URGH I KNOW LAH! I can take care of myself!" But then again, I realized why he is doing this to me. There's only one reason, he cares.
He wouldn't let me walk on my own at night 🌜because he's afraid someone might follow me home/get raped/etc.
As much as I've done it before, anything still can happen. There are days that you're lucky while some days you are not. He will take every opportunity that he can just to send me home. If not from the location itself, the bus stop will do.
He would get mad 😡 at me for wearing revealing clothes.
I really can't help it! & no its not that I wanna wear them badly, just that some tshirts I wear the collar tend to fall. But yes I understand him, he wouldn't want any other guys to look at my protruding boobs or cleavage. Maybe normal guys will take it as "Okay its just a freakin boob/cleavage" but there really are some sick minded males that will stare and get aroused. This kind of thoughts will usually fall into rape cases.
He would keep me down when I'm too loud⚡️ in public.
I often get offended as I'm pretty embarrassed and sensitive too. Sometimes I can't accept certain things that people confronted about me. "Fine, I'll shut up, sorry for being an embarrassment to your image." Well, to be talking really loudly really IS embarrassing. Basically, he do not want me to be a public nuisance.
He would spam me calls ☎️ and texts when I'm out to work or with my friends.
I'm the kind of person that will get carried away and I will not realize that I've a text or phone call. & he will be very furious and frustrated!! Really furious 😳 He is just worried. He worries that anything might happen to me when I'm out of his sight. He wants to be the guy that can protect me whenever he can. So whenever he's not with me, he just wanna ensure I'm alright throughout the time.
Being a woman, we need not worry our boys to get raped, being followed, etc. We know that they are capable to take care of themselves. Okay maybe we'll still get worried, but they'll definitely worry about us more.
I don't know how to thank Hamdan for being such a great man in my life. He's always taking care of me so well and being the sweetest man in the whole universe. Nothing is comparable to this man. We sin, we make mistakes but I pray that we'll change for the better together. In Shaa Allah. I love him so much!
Alhamdullilah, things have been fine when's in NS. Every body safe and sound. I am contented with whatever I have right now, my family, boyfriend and few friends around me. I'm rich and these people are definitely more than enough.
